Yesterday was Pink Shirt Day in Canada. A day to stand up to bullying. It also marked the release of this video, created by students at G.P. Vanier school in Courtenay, BC.

It is a touching video about hope, featuring a composition created to mark the day by poet Shane Koyczan (he of We Are More fame from the opening ceremonies of the 2010 Vancouver Olympics).

What a wonderful, inspiring project, which will (thanks to YouTube) be seen by thousands of people around the world. And, perhaps, one person who just might need to hear this message at the most pivotal moment of their life.

Here is Shane talking about how the project came about.

CC BY 4.0 Instructions for a Bad Day by Clint Lalonde is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License.

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  1. Instructions for a Bad Day – Shane Koyczan Pink Shirt Day Student Collaboration

    There will be bad days. Be calm. Loosen your grip opening each palm slowly now. Let go. Be confident. Know that now is only a moment, and that if today is as bad as it gets, understand that by tomorrow, today will have ended.

    Be gracious. Accept each extended hand offered to pull you back from the somewhere you cannot escape.

    Be diligent. Scrape the gray sky clean. Realize every dark cloud is a smoke screen meant to blind us from the truth. And the truth is, whether we see them or not, the sun and moon are still there and always there is light.

    Be forthright. Despite your instinct to say, “It’s alright, I’m okay.” Be honest. Say how you feel without fear or guilt. Without remorse or complexity. Be lucid in your explanation, be sterling in your repose.

    If you think for one second no one knows what you’ve been going through, be accepting of the fact that you are wrong, that the long drawn and heavy breaths of despair have at times been felt by everyone, that pain is part of the human condition and that alone makes you a legion.

    We hungry underdogs, we risers with dawn, we ? of odds, we lessers of ? We will station ourselves to the calm. We will hold ourselves to the steady. Be ready, player one. Life is gonna come at you armed with hard times and tough choices. Your voice is your weapon, your thoughts ammunition. There are no free extra men.

    Be aware that in the instant now passes, it exists now as then. So be a mirror reflecting yourself back, remembering the times when you thought all this was too hard and that you’d never make it through. Remember the times you could’ve pressed quit- but you hit continue.

    Be forgiving. Living with the burden of anger is not living. Giving your focus to wrath will leave your entire self absent of what you need. Love and hate are beasts, and the one that grows is the one you feed.

    Be persistent. Be the weed growing through the cracks in the cement; beautiful- because it doesn't know it's not supposed to grow there.

    Be resolute. Declare what you accept as true in a way that envisions the resolve with which you accept it.
    If you are having a good day, be considerate; a simple smile could be the first aid kit that someone has been looking for. If you believe with absolute honesty that you’re doing everything you can…do more.

    There will be bad days, times when the world weighs on you for so long it leaves you looking for an easy way out. There will be moments when the drought of joy seems unending. Instances spent pretending that everything is all right when it clearly is not. Check your blind spot. See that love is still there. Be patient. Every nightmare has a beginning, but every bad day has an end.

    Ignore what others have called you. I’m calling you friend. Make us comprehend the urgency of your crisis. Silence left to its own devices breeds silence- so speak and be heard, one word after the next, express yourself and put your life into context.

    If you find that no one is listening- be loud. Make noise. Stand in poise and be open.

    Hope in these situations is not enough and you will need someone to lean on. In the unlikely even that you have no one, look again, everyone is blessed with the ability to listen. The deaf will hear you with their eyes, the blind will see you with their hands, let your heart fill their newsstands, let them read all about it.

    Admit to the bad days, the impossible nights. Listen to the insights of those who have been there and have come back, they’ll tell you- you can stack misery, you can pack despair, you can even wear your sorrow. But come tomorrow, you must change your clothes.

    Everyone knows pain. We are not meant to carry it forever, we were never meant to hold it so closely, so be certain in the belief that what pain belongs to now will belong soon to then. That when someone asks you, “How was your day?” realize that for some of us, it’s the only way we know how to say, “Be calm. Loosen your grip, opening each palm slowly now. Let go.”

  2. Clint, love this. You know exactly how much I love stories of inspiration and pieces like this that remind us… we ALL have hard days.

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